Saturday my friend and I went to see Six: The Musical. If you get the chance go and see it. It is high energy, high emotions and totally amazing songs and dances for 90 minutes. We came out with tears down our faces and emotionally trembling.
But as I tried to sleep it got me thinking how this musical fitted in with so much of what I have been pondering around seeing and being seen which is why I’ve put it as third and didn’t post it on Sunday. [though am writing it Sunday whilst it is still fresh in my head]
Here were these six young women. And yes we do forget that they were all young. Yes Catherine of Aragon hung around until she was 50 but the other five were young enough to give Henry VIII an heir. And by the time he got to wife number three he was gout ridden, had a vicious temper, had syphilis of sleeping around and wasn’t a nice person.
In the musical the six women have decided to have a contest to see which is the “best” of the queens. The themes they use to explore this covered physical appearance, emotional trauma, abuse, infidelity, the patriarchal system, which still is in evidence today, especially with how we regard the physical appearances of women. All the time bitching to each other of which one had the hardest time with Henry and all the while selling themselves short. All of them crying out “see me” I felt.
Then Katherine Parr slows things down and to my mind says basically “we can’t see each other properly because we are in competition rather than in solidarity with each other.” She goes on to remind them that even though Henry VIII did many things he is mainly famous for having six wife and that it is these six women that made him such a figure in history.
In following on from the last two posts I think too often we are busy trying to compete with each other – whether openly or within our own heads. We want to be seen but we don’t want to see. We are afraid if we see others then we will lose something of ourselves – which I felt did come over in most of the songs.
So we need to come together in solidarity to truly see each other and let go of the things that could divide us. As Velveteen Rabbi says we can only build community if we do it together acknowledging our differences.
Acknowledging our differences is truly seeing each other.
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